Yes, I'm still here, where are you all?

I've been pretty busy with my new gf. Going on 3 months now. Haven't posted on my original blog because because I no longer have freedom to post about whatever I want. I posted a few minutes ago because I really needed to vent, and I kind of wanted you know who to see it. You know...since that holiday that's named after him is on Sunday and since you know who is such a superior being.

Anyway, a couple of things to vent here too...with more freedom. The not doing chores and messing up the house while I'm at work is getting old. I've gone on strike. I'm not doing any cleaning until they leave for you know who's place. And I'm not cooking any meals until my kitchen is clean, which means that I will be doing all the cleaning. I guess I'll be cleaning while the handyman is over on Saturday.

Haven't gotten a dime of child support this month. Apparently you know who is so superior he didn't feel the need to notify the agency he was getting money from that he's been working since 2008. Such a dumbass. You know who was caught doing this once before. So now we suffer. Just as I was about to get my finances under control after not having any income for 3 months. Get a f'n job at Mc Donalds or something. Jeez!

My bff apparently is no longer. Her gf found out we went out to lunch with her sister 2 months ago and apparently we can no longer get together. Not even as couples. I did see her a few times after that...to return things I borrowed, but that no doubt was just to get the stuff back. We did go out to lunch once after that with...approval from "the boss", but it was weird. The conversation didn't flow at all. I found myself asking questions about the family just to not have dead silence. I do know from previous conversations that her gf resorts to childish silent treatments and not going home when I was there to drop things off and waiting to talk to her. I'm sure it's no picnic on her end, but you'd think she'd want to talk. You'd also think that she wouldn't renege on her promise to remain friends, but it's not looking good. I pushed it this week and asked when the four or eight of us were going to get together and I got no response and haven't heard from her since. It's not right, but I don't see anything I can do about it. I miss the conversation and I miss getting together. We all used to have such a good time.

I also miss having someone to talk to about our mutual friends. It seems one of them has broken up with another gf. They seemed so perfect together, really nice woman. Oh well, I guess there is something to the idea that when people in a relationship have different notions about how often to keep in touch, and they are too different...it doesn't work out. She's one of those "have to keep in touch constantly" people and she just doesn't get that people like to have some space. Oh well, maybe one day she'll figure it out. In the mean time now I have to deal with her being single, which means she's texting me all the time and wanting to do events or meet up for coffee. Which is fine, I don't have too much of a problem with that, it's just that she's always changing the plans. If I plan an event for the group, I stick with the original plan, I don't gauge the response and then go in 5 different directions trying to get a better response. But whatever, I've come to realize that's the way she is and it doesn't look like she's going to change.

So what have you all been up to?

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Oops he did it again...or how to make an angry mob of lesbians...

So I went to check my bank this morning. SSI regularly goes in on the 3rd of the month for the kids...nothing...zip...nada...zilch. So I call. Apparently dumbass did it again. He worked (which is news to me, he's been saying for years he hasn't been working) and failed to report it to SSI, so they cut him off, thereby cutting off the kids payments too. And they went back to 2008 and say they want all that money back. Basically that's $9,000 per kid, so I basically owe SSI $18,000. And I'm figuring he owes SSI about $40,000 for payments made to him.

This happened before, about 6 years ago. I can asked that repayment be waived for me because I had no knowledge of his shenanigans, and have no means to repay it, but I will be spending hours gathering paperwork and filling out forms. Of course I will do this, because no way I have that kind of money laying around.

It just pisses me off royally how someone can get caught doing this before, and then have the balls to do it again.

And what pisses me off even more is that I don't have that money coming in anymore. I spent my entire paycheck on the mortgage thinking I had money coming in today for silly things like car insurance, phone bills and food. How silly of me!

Oh, that angry mob of lesbians? My awesome friends. They want to go kick his a$$.

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